The chase

so im on the couch just wakin up from a lil power nap..and I get a pin from my homegirl,she tells me to go look on facebook at somethin so i look n I see a pic of her *what we call our mr.Toronto*

inside joke we both share...so whatever i check out the pic..n i pin her back sayin..WOW...we laugh..then i begin to tell her that i havent talked to MR.toronto in a few..which is fine..cause im not one to actually call alot of vice versa..but we began to talk more and came up with...I dont think that i would like *him*that much if it was sooo easy like no chase..but why is that..why do we always want a chase..what's wrong with the guy that you actually likes you..n you dont have to feel like 'does he like me?'but i guess cause its all a game we as women n them as men play..i'll call it "the chase".but who catches feelings first..in my opinion i think the female catches the feelings first..she's the one..that wants to see him all the time..gets the butterfly when he calls..loves seeing him around...then it all switches(of course over time)the guy gets more comfortable...he let's loose a lil..shows a lil more interests,the body language changes..his tone of voice..he calls more...he wants to see you more..but now that the chase if over and you have him..do you still want n like him..some say yes some say no..

so my question is..why is that whe we get what we want..why dont we want to keep it..?

ashleynicole wants to kno what you think?