THOUGHTS

cling·y [ klíngee ] (comparative cling·i·er, superlative cling·i·est


Definition:

1. emotionally dependent: too dependent on the company or emotional support of other people

2. sticking to body: sticking closely to the body
i have never really understood why some are cling.y towards a guy or girl.i mean the fact of holding/sticking onto someone all the time.....i guess letting go is SCARY right?NOT having that person there when you are used to having them...thinkin are you the reason for them not wanting you,is there someone else.soo many things pop in your head.of course you never want it to be another person filling in for your spot,but then again.how can it be you after all this time...but dont things change?the things that you liked before about eachother either grow STRONGER or WEAKER and sometimes there isnt much you can do about it...so i guess this is when the BAD word cling.y starts...and what's weird to me is that i bet the person does not even notice they are doin it....callin you all the time to see what you are up to...wonderin all the time who you are with and why arent you with them,and the response could be a one word answer which causes more FUSTERATION...and if there was someone else in the picture..why get mad at the new person in the picture especially if they were not aware of the person already in the picture?is it because if you get upset at the person you are involved with there is POTENTIAL that that person will leave and not love you anymore...I think everything happens for a reason....jus because someone might not want to be with you at this point in time of their life does not mean its the end of the world,and it doesnt mean that there is not someone else waiting for you.but i guess this could be hard for some..lookin for someone new isnt always the easiest thing to do...but i dont actually think you should go lookin for LOVE,it should find you...but who am i to say...I mean why stay in a relationship when you kno that everything isnt the same...is wishing that things were the same better than your own HAPPINESS?I guess the thought of someone else with YOURS is un.bear.able or even impossible to think of,especially if you DO NOT see that there is a problem,the looking through the phones for text doesnt this only cause more problem?But i mean..can't u feel tension when your together body language changes i could go on and on and on ON this topic..but who am i to say
a.banks aka PUZZLED